There is a woman inside of you that cuts thru the noise
She is fierce, contained, and sovereign
She doesn’t flinch,
she is unwavering
But you learned to deny her
To not “intimidate” people
To get a sense of “belonging”
To feel “accepted”
But really?
It’s because owning her scares the part of you who still doesn’t want to be in full responsibility of her power
Owning her would mean no longer getting off to the fantasy of being saved (goodbye victim princess waiting to collapse into the arms of a man)
So you’ve gotten comfortable downplaying her so you don’t have to step in to what your power really asks of you
The Truth?
It’s no longer working for you and you know it…you’re bored
You are actually ready to…
Backyour Desires
No more living life on the sidelines and in fantasy, you are ready to be the center of your life…listening to the guidance of your soul dreams and following them ruthlessly.
Be inyour Full Expression
You know when you are holding back from being in the spotlight or even just sharing yourself online. That subtle playing small is ready to go. You are ready to just be.
Live fromyour Sovereign Spine
The ways you give away your power to others bypretending to not know and waiting for them to save, validate and see you is ready to be done. You know it’s your own approval that is the magnet for your life.
Own your Life-Force
Your hunger and sex has been stifled. You’ve been letting shame of your raw sexual energy drive your life. Suppressing the impulse, the fire, and the mess to stay in control. You know your life-force is your power and you’re ready to own it to create your life.
At some point in your life …
Becoming Invisible helped you Survive
Being Digestible helped you keep Control
Taming your Fire gave you Belonging
Caging your Real Size gave you Safety…
You’ve been terrified of the reactions from others if you let out what is really inside of you…or so your mind says
If they would leave or stop loving you if you stopped pretending to be smaller than you really are and having no spine
And no…
I’m not talking about the rebellious teenager in there who thinks she knows power
Who talks back because she’s still fighting her parents in her head
Needing to prove a false sense of power in where she is still ruled by a fear of being controlled so she controls back
And secretly just wants to be seen…
That is the result of not being in your power
I’m talking about the clunk of your sight
The weight of your power
The stripped back nature of the part of you who truly stands for something and can’t be swayed by bullshit
I’m talking about the one who knows
The one who sees
Who smells bullshit from a mile away..most importantly her own
Who sees an immediate mask and refuses to be entangled in its web
Who doesn’t play nice just to make friends
Who isn’t agreeable because it’s what’s expected
Who knows what she wants
Know what she needs
And knows how to receive it
Without entitlement
Without a grab
But a full body permission
Dangerous Woman
LOBA’s
IS FOR:
The Woman who has hidden the truth of her Medicine.
The Woman who has tamed her Voice, Radiance & Eros to Belong.
The Woman who has caged her Sight, Desire, & Expression to stay Safe.
And everyone around you?
Can’t actually trust you because they can feel you are hiding something
You’re lost in your head about how you appear and if they will like you
Instead of knowing you are the one who chooses
You’re hiding your desire because it fcks up who you think are and care about what they will think of you
Instead of owning the uniqueness of how your path is carving you
You’re trying to sound like everybody else, losing the power of your expression behind a mask of humility
Instead of getting out of the way for the force of your expression, letting it repel and magnetize what and who is truly for you
You see…you’ve been living under the belief that it is safer to hide than to let it out
That thing inside of you..is dangerous
Because it is a ruthless force that awakens and shakes the illusions
Because it is a power that knows how to turn it all into medicine
Because it is annihilating to a lot of our idea of ourselves
And when that force is awakened
You must serve with it
Your preference to live a life just for your comfort can no longer stay
The one where you can hide under other people in their power
The one where you can just “do the work” in the coziness of your bedroom with no real skin in the game
The one where you get away with fantasy instead of facing reality
So you don’t appear as a…
DANGEROUS WOMAN
Because the
DANGEROUS WOMAN?
She is the one who is willing to be the projection board
She is the one who is shameless in her desire
She is the one who gets demonized
She is considered DANGEROUS because she is sovereign
A warrior for her values, stands in her boundaries, and fucks up your idea of what it means to be feminine
It’s hard to be her, to walk in the world owning your life, allowing the judgements
But it’s worth it, for your life’s sake
And she is the power you’ve been wanting to awaken inside of you
She is your KEY back to your Power
Are you ready to:
Embody,
Your full range without diluting or suppressing yourself. Imagine being able to break out of limiting boxes of expression so you can move thru the world being truly seen and received.
Unlock,
Your voice when you aren’t holding back, the rawness of your expression, your ability to see clearly. Let’s be honest, you’ve been hiding behind something that isn’t really you. Real power doesn’t need to prove, it just is.
Strip Off,
The good girl mask, the cool girl mask, the independent boss babe mask, the martyr princess, the victim princess & all the other identities you created to hide. Time to go from freeze and fawn to bold and embodied.
Open,
Your heart while at the same time sharpen your discernment so that you can walk in the world open and rooted in yourself with eyes wide open and not rose colored glasses. You can be soft and fierce.
I AM READY TO MEET MY UNWAVERING POWER
01 About
LOBA is not a retreat. It is an initiation into the primordial wisdom that lives in your bones & blood. We hold energetic, spiritual & physical preparation and integration before and after we meet in-person.
02 Initiation
The 6 day & 5 night initiation takes place in Mazunte, Oaxaca, Mexico on April 1-6th. You will be guided by Karla Palomino and supported by LOBA graduates Wyatt Benoit & Aria Beem. Full lodging and farm to table meals are included with your tuition.
03 Application
Once your application is approved, you will be invited into a video call to discuss onboarding and agreements and to complete payment processing. Keep in mind that this is a mystery school, many details will be withheld.
Your Guide
I’m Karla Palomino, and I guide women into their undeniable primordial power
For a long time, I was numb to my own inner power. I tried to drink and smoke it away, escape my body by not respecting it, and felt immensely powerless in my life. One day, without therapy, or support, I saw how it was all me. I saw how I could spend my life blaming my past, and replaying the stories of my past to blame my current circumstances, but my ancestors gave me a loving asskicking and showed me: this was my battle to walk through. I couldn’t hear myself blame my parents one more time for my financial reality, or the boyfriend at the time who didn’t believe in my vision, it didn’t matter that I felt wildy alone in my becoming, I had to create something different and change my reality. Over the years this capacity grew more and more: I went from having negatives in my bank account to owning two lands, creating a multiple six figure business for 7 years now, and traveling the world doing what I love. I went from hustling multiple jobs, being unsatisfied in every relationship, and feeling lost and hopeless about my life, to creating a soul based business, creating beautiful rich growth oriented relationships, and feeling my vision guide my life every step with full faith. I guide women home to to their medicine and embodied power that they can create lives from their soul.
