lim·er·ence
noun
the state of being obsessively infatuated with someone, usually accompanied by delusions of or a desire for an intense romantic relationship with that person
/ˈlimər(ə)
Beneath Limerance…
is a Soul Calling Home
You’re spinning your wheels wondering if he’s “the one” late into the night again
Trying to decode his last text in your mind
While your whole body buzzes
You’re replaying that moment you had with them as if you’re taking a bump of something sketchy in secrecy
You can barely think of anything else in some moments
Pretending to be present while out with your friends
But really?
You’re elsewhere…high on fantasy in your mind
Deep down
You taste the whisper
Of something being off
But you convince yourself it’s just how it is
You put them on a pedestal…yet you barely even know them
Yearning, aching, high on your own supply on the image you’ve made them out to be
They hit all the right spots…that make you feel wild and out of control
Just the thought of them
Makes you weak in the knees & let’s be honest, makes your kitty wet too
You’re waiting for the next hit of them
Just to feed the web of LIMERANCE
So the moment they message you…
You take one sniff
And you’re entangled in the web once again
Taking tiny interactions and turning them into a all you can eat buffet
If only you could just have them…
But babe,
this is you in RELATIONSHIP to YOUR Fantasy
Not them
They are simply the FACE of the thing..
Trying to get your attention
To Guide you Home
While you’re still making it about THEM
But
It’s YOU who is actually ringing the phone every time you’re flying high off them
That high is the ringtone that SOMETHING deep needs real attention…not another distraction
Let’s be real,
You learned you needed to earn love, chase it, be in the reach of it…
And if you could just get it just “right”…
Then that fantasy you’re holding out for would come to life and you’d finally be _______ (okay, loved, safe, seen, validated…)
But you see
The part of you beneath
The one beneath LIMERANCE, beneath the hunger, longing, obsession, and ache
Is waiting for you
Is crying for you
Is reaching for you
To See her
Ground her
& Love her
Home
The familiar grief you’ve spun out in for how many people now…
Who have turned out to be a fantasy you discarded once the illusion popped (after you made them the devil or you just found a new supply)...is getting old to you now
You see the pattern
This LIMERANCE is the distraction
It fills the hole you have yet to learn how to truly, deeply, inhabit
The God-sized hole
Unwinding LIMERANCE
Is a homecoming
In the deepest way you’ve ever known
7 Weeks
Begins November 8th, 2025
I’m Ready:
LIMERANCE is for you if…
You are READY to access the SHIT TON of POWER beneath the pattern of LIMERANCE
You are ready to STOP projecting and start OWNING the thing you keep externalizing onto another
You are ready to HOLD and LOVE the part of you that you keep abandoning through LIMERANCE
You are ready to HEAR and begin to follow the soul call beneath LIMERANCE
You are sooo ready to have a pathway of moving through LIMERANCE instead of getting stuck in it for days, months or years and START living and creating instead
You’re ready to catch this pattern sooner because you know it’s costing you the intimacy, life, and creativity you desire
You’re a woman who is 18+
LIMERANCE is the call to your soul
You make it about the other person
If only I could have them, then I’d be “________” whatever you use here, complete, fulfilled, loved, happy….
While beneath, it’s a young part of you looking for the savior
So when that person doesn’t live up to the expectation
They go from Savior to Devil
You focus all your attention OUT to them
When it’s actually about you babe
The place you aren’t meeting yourself
The place you’re not seeing yourself
The place you’re ignoring yourself
There is a huge COST to the pattern of LIMERANCE when you’re lost in its web
That cost is your LIFE, the connection to yourself, your creative sexual life-force that you are here to actually create with
At times you ask yourself, “can I really get off this obsessive loop?”
”Can I truly get off this ride?”
Yes, you can, and when you do, you will access what you’ve been actually longing for
It requires you fully showing up to meet the part of you that is UTTERLY OBSESSED and seeing her ALL THE WAY, bringing her home
The Journey through LIMERANCE is a Soul Retrieval
Your Guide
Welcome Woman,
I’m Karla Palomino. And I know first hand the ins and out of LIMERANCE.
I developed this coping mechanism when I was very young, and retrieving the power beneath this pattern has been a huge part of my life’s work.
My living experience was once so painful, I had to cut myself from the experience of being embodied in the here and now and use fantasy to be ok.
Through shadow work, embodiment, and shamanic soul retrieval, I’ve been able to find the pathway through this pattern.
I’ve learned how to fully meet the part of me beneath the pattern and cultivate the capacity to be there with myself in the places I’d abandon myself.
What I’ve learned is that women with this pattern possess an enormous amount of creative life force/sexual energy they’ve yet to learn how to wield and meet.
Since I can remember woman…I have known this fantasy-obsessed part of me
Limerance
I would spend long stretches of time lost inside of the web of limerance
An all-consuming force
Throughout my whole life, it’s had me on an immense pursuit of trying to have this place inside of me filled
By whatever I could fantasize about
Without realizing it was an avoidance of my life, my soul, my creative sexual life-force
I had no idea how to be this with the God-sized hole, so my drug of choice was LIMERANCE
It was costing my life, my creations, and feeling truly at home in myself and life
It was a way to stay up and out
For a long time, I had no map of understanding what was happening for me
Then when I did finally see it, I didn’t know the way through
I stayed at the story level and kept spinning my wheels in the illusion
I was trying to just shut down this part of me
WITHOUT going all the way into it to truly MEET what it was trying to show me
And once I did?
Everything shifted
All that energy siphoned into the LIMERANCE became the call to meeting exactly the spot I needed to meet in myself
Let me show you how woman
THE CONTAINER
Logistics
7 Weekly Live Calls on November 8th, 15th, 22nd & December 6th, 13th & 20th, & 27th from 10 AM-12:30 PM PST.
Recordings of calls will be uploaded into our private container on Mighty Networks after each call.
To be a part of the live calls, you must have your camera on and be fully present in the calls as calls require full presence and are interactive.
I highly recommend coming live for the best experience of this journey.
After purchasing, you’ll receive a logistics email with an invite into both our private telegram & Mighty Networks group.
What Live Calls Entail
Calls are a combination of somatic ceremony, hot seat coaching, and teachings.
Karla’s style is direct, loving, and no bullshit.
You will be moving your body, writing, feeling, and alchemizing on these calls. This is how transformation works.
In-Between Calls
We will have a private community on Telegram during the live 6-week journey where Karla will send audio practices, inquiries and teachings throughout the journey.
There will also be a private community in Mighty Networks with the recorded calls, space to digest, assignments and embodiment practices. This will remain a space for you after the journey to return to the work.
Responsibility
By joining this container, you are agreeing to taking full responsibility for your experience with the understanding that this work will bring up a vast array of sensations, emotions and feelings, some of which may be quite confronting.
You understand that there are no refunds under any circumstances.
You are agreeing that you are at least 18 years old or older and that you will not share this material with anyone else.
I’m Ready for this Journey
L I M E R A N C E
It plays in the back of your mind
Like vinyl on replay
Hooked on an IV of scenarios
Of what has been or could be
It has you on your knees in dreams
If only you could have that person,
you would be,
Complete
Satisfied
Met
Touching God
If only you could get this person
You could finally have it
Whatever version of “it” is most seductive
Limerence is a deep soul call
An intelligent illusion
An endlessly hungry
Ravishing
Ghost
A fantasy chomping at your life force
But inside of you
Beneath the glimmer of hope
There is a part screaming
See me
Remember me
Know me
At times it feels good
To feel helpless to the illusion
To be caught in the web of possibility
That limerence creates
If only this person, could see you, love you, or fuck you
If only this time of your life would return
It would bring you “the thing” you think you’re longing for
But this thing that gnaws at your insides
Is pointing you
Back to you
It is the echo of the past
Waiting to be heard
And this person
This time in your life
Is simply the face
Limerence has attached to
And dressed as
Beneath a deep
Soul Call